Catching Your Cheating Lover Plr Ebook

Table of Contents

CONTENTS

1 OUR CHEATING HEARTS 5
2 CHEATING IN CYBERVILLE 7
3 CHEATER PROFILE – TOP TEN TRAITS 9
LIKELY CHEATERS HAVE…. 9
SEXUAL-SOPHISTICATION 9
RISK-ATTRACTION 9
PARENTAL CHEATING 10
OCCASIONAL CHEATERS HAVE…. 10
BAD MANNERS 10
OPPOSITE-SEX “PALS” 10
CHEATING PEERS 11
SERIAL CHEATERS HAVE…. 11
CHEATING-ITIS 11
PAST CHEATING 11
BAD-REPUTE 11
ALPHA-CHEATERS HAVE… 12
INFIDELITY-MANIA 12
4 INVESTIGATION 101- BASICS & GUIDELINES 13
INVESTIGATOR BASICS 13
DOS…. 13
DON’TS…. 14
INVESTIGATOR GUIDELINES 15
5 SEARCHING FOR TELL-TALE SIGNS 18
PERSONAL INDICATORS 18
RELATIONSHIP CHANGES 21
BEHAVIOR TRAITS 23
WORK HABITS 24
PHONE SIGNALS 25
ONLINE TENDENCIES 26
6 COLLECTING CLUES 28
POCKETS/PURSE/WALLET 28
CLOSET 28
HOME OFFICE/DESK/WASTEBASKET 29
CAR 30
WORKPLACE 31
JOURNAL 31
BILLS & FINANCIAL STATEMENTS 32
7 TELEPHONE SLEUTHING 33
CALLER ID 33
REDIAL 34
*69 34
*67 35
REVERSE PHONE SEARCH 35
TELEPHONE MONITORING 36
8 CYBER-SNOOPING 37
EMAIL ADDRESS FINDER 37
COMPUTER MONITORING SOFTWARE 38
EMAIL/CHAT/INSTANT MESSAGING 38
INTERNET BROWSING 39
KEYSTROKES 39
SCREENSHOTS 39
WEB-BASED/REMOTE MONITORING 40
KEYSTROKE LOGGER/RECORDER 40
9 SURVEILLANCE GEAR 42
GPS MOBILE PHONE 42
GPS TRACKER 43
ELECTRONIC VIDEO SYSTEM 43
10 HIRING A PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR 46
CONCLUSION – NOW WHAT? 49

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OUR CHEATING HEARTS

We prefer honesty in our relationships, but reality doesn’t always measure up to our expectations. Cheating is an everyday occurrence.

Some cheating isn’t even considered cheating. Football games are won by trick plays and earn quarterbacks the title of hero, along with multimillion-dollar salaries. Other cheating is entertaining, like the magician’s repertoire of card tricks, sleight of hand, and beautiful women who disappear or survive being sawed in half. Military strategy often involves camouflage, which throughout history has won wars, going back to the Trojan horse in ancient Greece.

Most cheating however is undesirable, whether it’s a gambler trying to beat the casino, the student who cheats on exams, the citizen who fudges numbers on a tax return, or the CEO who pays himself a multimillion-dollar bonus while shareholder profits plummet. But perhaps the most disappointing, and personally painful, cheating is that which occurs among lovers and spouses. An unwritten expectation of fidelity is the core of our sexual relationships.