Self Confidence Transformation MRR Ebook With Audio

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Another key component of creating a good impression when you first meet someone and conveying confidence is maintaining proper eye contact. Holding eye contact suggests that you feel equal to the person you’re speaking to and it gives you more intensity, makes you seem more honest and in other words sends all of those good social signals that we want to send!

So, try to maintain good eye contact but without being creepy. Hold the gaze for a few seconds, then look away while gesticulating and then hold the gaze again.
And when speaking in front of a larger group, make sure that you look around the group and remember to hold eye contact with each person for a few seconds.

8 Speak More Slowly

One of the things that will help you to seem more confident while communicating is to speak more slowly. We are naturally inclined to speed up as we become nervous and this can lead to us stumbling over our words and seeming less confident and less sure of what we’re saying. Of course this is not good!

On the other hand, if you speak more slowly, then you come across as someone who knows what they’re talking about, who is confident in who they are and who has thought about what they’re saying. Because you’re giving yourself time, you’ll also be less likely to stutter or to pause and need to use um, filler words.

9 Tell Stories

Telling stories also conveys confidence.

And this works in tandem with speaking more slowly.

You see, one of the reasons we speak quickly when we are talking in public is to get it over with more quickly. We speak quickly because a) we aren’t naturally fond of talking in public and we want it to stop and b) we aren’t confident that what we’re saying is compelling enough or interesting enough and we’re worried that people will stop listening if we don’t finish what we’re saying quickly!

But if you tell a story then this suggests that you are more natural when it comes to holding court and entertaining a crowd. It suggests you’re enjoying it and that you have confidence in your own ability to entertain.

And this effect is felt even more strongly if you slow it down. Not only in terms of how you speak but also in your delivery. That means that you set the scene, you ask rhetorical questions, you use repetition and you create suspense. This is something that the most charismatic people can pull off tremendously and it has a huge impact when done well.

Don’t rush to the point, enjoy the moment, linger and have faith in how interesting you are!

10 Gesticulate

Speaking of the most charismatic people, science also has something to say about this topic.

You see, in studies it has been shown that people who are rated as the most charismatic, also tend to gesticulate the most.

Gesticulation means talking with your hands, it means being animated and pointing, gesturing and pacing around as you speak.

And the reason that this is associated with confidence and charisma, is because it makes us seem more engaged with what we ourselves are saying. Now our body language and our words are congruent and our passion can therefore be felt around the room.

The more you gesture as you speak, the more passionate and emphatic you seem to be about what you’re saying. And this is highly engaging and impressive – it makes everyone else perceive it as more engaging and interesting too!

11 Be Passionate

The only catch here? That’s not something you can fake.

Try to ‘fake’ your gesticulations and you’ll find you instantly become very aware of your hands and not quite sure what to do with them! This of course makes you look a lot more awkward – far from looking more confident!

So instead, you need to focus on genuinely believing and being excited by what you’re talking about. Don’t speak up unless you have something to say and try to avoid investing too much of your life into things that you really don’t care about. If your job doesn’t get you fired up in the good way then look for other work.

Because here’s the secret. When you love what you do and when you’re in your natural element, confidence and charisma come entirely naturally!

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- 1 Ebook (PDF, DOC), 9 Pages
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- Year Released/Circulated: 2022
- File Size: 3,177 KB

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