Unlocking The Enneagrams Mystery Plr Ebook

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Table Of Contents

Foreword

Chapter 1: The History Of Enneagrams

Chapter 2: Discovering Your Enneagram Type And Variants

Chapter 3: The Reformer

Chapter 4: The Helper

Chapter 5: The Achiever

Chapter 6: The Individualist

Chapter 7: The Investigator

Chapter 8: The Loyalist

Chapter 9: The Enthusiast

Chapter 10: The Challenger

Chapter 11: The Peacemaker

Wrapping Up

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Chapter 8:

The Loyalist

Synopsis

They will stand by you till death. Such is the ideal of a loyalist – if you earn their trust, that is…

This chapter talks about:

What a loyalist is all about
Why are loyalists good to have around
What is most difficult about loyalists
Dealing with them and bringing out the best
Who they get along with
Who they don’t along with

Championing the cause of loyalty, come what may… they WILL stay! – learn to love them, accept them for who they are and bring the best out of them!

What Is A Loyalist?

A loyalist is a person who is epitomized by the famous song “Stand by me”. The day they build solid trust with someone, they will stick by them all the way until the end.

They are a very unique type of people when it comes to trust because they tend to trust people almost as much as they distrust people at the same time. These people are always constantly looking for something or someone to believe in deeply – once the people they believe in have ‘earned their trust’, they will be loyal till death.

The Good

The good thing about loyalists is that they are really courageous towards people who’ve earned their trust – often metaphorically throwing themselves in front of traffic to save them.

Deep down inside, they want to feel safe – they want to believe that in a loyal, trusting relationship, there is no fear of betrayal and will often project these to their trusted people, especially their life partners. They make very good life partners at the same time too.

Having a holy idea of faith, they constantly believe that miracles will happen and even though the people they trust do screw up, they will have the tendency to believe in them until they become a better person.

The Bad

Loyalists are sometimes cowards – feeling insecure with people around them.

They are so conflicted with trust and distrust that it will appear really conflicting at times (until the person earns their trust).

They are also phobic beings – afraid of a lot of things. While they may be good at fixing problems, they are also filled with anxiety to the core as they don’t really have peace of mind.

How To Deal With Them

Since loyalists are generally afraid of isolation and vulnerability, the best way is to always calm them down and comfort them – showing them that you too can be trustworthy because deep down inside, they are always suspicious of others (hence their fixation on lots and lots of loyalty).

A self-preserving loyalist will always be working alone, quietly helping others fearful of people discovering their lack in their being.

The best way to deal with them is to return their trust and give them faith.

A sexual loyalist will always stick to the mate, but sometimes, being loyal for the wrong things is always bad – so focus on growing them instead.

Last but not least, a social loyalist is a person who will always stick with a group or a cause all the way till the end.

They work very well with peacemakers (type 9) who are often reinforces their loyalist and safe seeking nature and they hate being around achievers (type 3) who gives them a feeling of insecurity as it shakes their comfort zone of safety at the same time.